Questions to ask your girlfriend
The trick to good questions isn't depth on demand — it's specificity. "Unlimited money, one purchase first" gets a better answer than "what are your dreams", every time.
Each of these is multiple choice. Guess her answer before you ask; on Games we Play the guessing is the game.
1.Black-tie gala.
2.Last hour of a Paris trip. What comes home?
3.Beach wedding.
4.Beach town souvenir stand. The buy is…
5.First date.
6.Museum gift shop. Exiting with…
7.Music festival.
8.Airport last-minute panic gift?
The other 52 are better with your person.
On Games we Play you both answer, both guess each other, and the reveal is scored.
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9. Sunday coffee run.
🛋️ Full comfort · 😴 Whatever I slept in · 🧢 “Effortless” (20 min) · 🏃 Gym cosplay · 🕶️ Actually put together · 🧥 Coat over pajamas
10. Foreign flea market. Drawn to…
🧶 A rug we cannot carry · 🎵 Old records in a language we don't speak · 💍 Handmade jewelry · 🤝 Nothing — here for the haggling sport
11. Meeting their parents.
🤵 Polished and safe · 🧸 Trustworthy energy · 🪞 Exactly myself · 💐 Overdressed. Respect · 📐 Smart casual · ⌚ The subtle flex
12. Ski village shop. The purchase is…
🧢 A beanie with a pom-pom · 🧵 A patch for a jacket that has no patches · 🥃 Local schnapps · 🚰 A sticker for the water bottle
13. Big interview.
💼 The full suit · 📐 Smart casual, calculated · 🍀 The lucky item · 🎨 Creative-industry armor · 🕵️ Recon: match their vibe · 💻 Zoom-ready
14. Tokyo convenience store haul includes…
🍬 Every weird KitKat flavor · 📝 Stationery we don't need · 🎰 Six gachapon capsules · 🧖 Skincare masks
15. Long-haul flight.
🧘 Head-to-toe athleisure · 🧅 Strategic layers · 👖 Jeans and dignity · 🌙 Basically pajamas · 🧦 Comfort engineering · ✈️ Dress for the 1960s
16. Gas station in the middle of nowhere…
🌵 A shot glass with a cactus on it · 🥓 Artisanal (?) jerky · 🧢 A trucker hat · 🪨 A painted rock. It spoke to me
17. First thing you actually do?
🚪 Quit. Same afternoon · 🏡 Buy the house · 👨👩👧👦 Sort out everyone in my family · 🧘 Genuinely nothing, for a while
18. Phone at 1%. The last text goes to…
🥰 You, obviously · 👩 Mom · 💬 The group chat · 📍 Whoever I'm meeting next
19. Would you still work?
🏝️ Never again · 🛠️ Only on my own things · 💼 Same job. I like it · 🤲 Something that helps people
20. …and it says:
🗺️ Exact location + plan · 🪫 “phone dying don't panic” · 💛 Something lowkey sweet · 🐸 One final meme. Priorities
21. Where do you live?
🌆 Best flat in a great city · 🌊 Somewhere with a view of water · 🧳 Everywhere. Three months at a time · 🏠 Exactly where I am, just nicer
22. Whose fault is the 1%?
🙋 Mine. It's always mine · 🔌 The fraying cable's · 📱 Some app eating battery · 🌍 Society's
23. Who finds out?
📣 Everyone. Immediately · 🤐 Family and two friends · 🕵️ Nobody. Not one person · 🐢 They'd work it out slowly
24. Stranger offers their charger. You…
🙏 Accept with a speech of gratitude · 🫡 Decline, suffer nobly · 🧐 Suspicious. What do they want
25. How much goes to other people?
💝 Most of it. I don't need most of it · ⚖️ About half · 🤫 A meaningful amount, quietly · 🔒 It's mine. I'd help, but it's mine
26. Your battery anxiety kicks in at…
😰 50%. Yes, fifty · 😌 20% — normal person · 😎 5% — thrill seeker · 🧘 It dies when it dies
27. The one genuinely stupid purchase?
🏎️ A car I can't drive properly · 🖼️ Art nobody else likes · 🦙 An animal I am not qualified to own · 😐 I wouldn't. That's the sad part
28. Low Power Mode is…
🔋 On since 2021 · 🚨 Emergency measures only · ⚡ Never. Full power or nothing
29. What changes between us?
❤️ Nothing. That's the point · ⏰ We'd have far more time together · ⚖️ It would test us · 💭 I think money changes everyone a bit
30. Phone actually dies while out. Feeling?
🕊️ Wildly, illegally free · 🫣 Naked and afraid · ⏱️ Fine for exactly 11 minutes
31. One thing in the world you'd throw money at?
🏘️ Housing · 🧬 A disease, specifically · 🌍 Climate · 📍 Somewhere small that I know
32. Back online after 3 hours dead. First move?
📨 Triage the texts · 🌀 Straight to scrolling · 📞 Call whoever called · 🦗 Nothing. Nobody noticed
33. Is there an amount that's too much?
🎁 Yes, and I'd give the rest away · ♾️ No such thing · 🎯 Enough is a number and I know mine · 😨 Past a point it'd frighten me
34. First text of the morning goes to…
🌅 You, before my eyes open · 👥 The group chat · 💼 Something work-shaped · ☕ Nobody texts before coffee
35. What do the next generation get?
🎓 All of it · 🛡️ Enough to be safe, not enough to coast · ✂️ Very little, deliberately · 🤷 Not something I think about
36. Three drinks in, my texts become…
💌 Deeply loving essays · 🍜 Enthusiastic typo soup · 🎙️ Voice notes. Long ones · 🧊 Identical. Suspiciously so
37. How many homes, honestly
🏡 One perfect one · 🏙️ City base + escape hatch · 🍂 One per season · 🛎️ None — eternal five-star hotels
38. My emoji-to-word ratio
🎨 Emoji carry the sentence · 🎯 One per message, tasteful · 📜 Special occasions only · ✍️ Words. I use words
39. Private chef situation
👨🍳 Full-time, obviously · 🍱 Meal prep drop-offs · 🎉 Dinner parties only · ❤️ I'd still cook — it's love
40. Leaving someone on read
😇 Never — cruelty · 🌪️ Only when life happens · ♟️ Occasionally strategic · 🕶️ My read receipts are off for a reason
41. How we fly now
🛩️ Private. Time is the luxury · 🥂 First class, normal airports · 💺 Business — private feels wasteful · 🎒 Economy. I refuse to change
42. Double texting
📚 Triple. Quadruple. Shameless · 👍 Fine when it's warranted · ⏳ I wait. On principle · 📏 One message, one reply. Order
43. Parents' situation
🏠 Houses paid off, day one · 🌴 Retired immediately, allowance forever · 🤫 Whatever they ask for, quietly · 🌫️ …it's complicated
44. The typing bubble appears… then vanishes
🌀 I spiral immediately · 🧐 Noted. Curious. Moving on · 😌 Didn't notice, don't care · 👻 I AM the vanishing bubble
45. Public or anonymous wealth
🕶️ Ghost mode. Nobody knows · 🤝 Friends know, world doesn't · 📸 Public — might as well enjoy it · 🕊️ Known only for the giving
46. When I'm excited over text
📢 FULL CAPS ARRIVE · ❗ Exclamation marks!!! Many!!! · 📨 Seven messages in a row · 🧘 "that's great" (I mean it deeply)
47. The one truly absurd purchase
🏝️ A small island · 🖼️ A museum piece for the hallway · 🏟️ A stake in my team · 🦖 A dinosaur skeleton. Non-negotiable
48. An unexpected phone call means
🚨 Someone has died · 😤 This could've been a text · ☎️ Delighted — calls are underrated · 📵 Straight to voicemail, text me
49. Would you want ME to keep working?
🎚️ Entirely your call · ⏰ No — I want the time with you · 🧭 Yes. Purpose matters · 🏗️ We'd build something together
50. A period at the end of a text is
🗡️ Openly hostile · 🎩 Weirdly formal · 📖 Grammar. It's just grammar · 🎭 Depends who sent it
51. The friendships
🍻 Nothing changes. Same pub, same crew · 🧾 I'd cover everything, quietly · 🔬 The money would reveal people · 🤐 New rule: never discuss it
52. Sending memes is
🐸 My primary love language · 📅 A daily check-in system · 🙂 Fun in moderation · 📥 I receive; I don't send
53. Wardrobe upgrade
👕 Same clothes, better versions · 🧵 Everything tailored, suddenly · 🦚 Full transformation, no apologies · ⌚ One watch says everything
54. My honest average reply time
⚡ Seconds. I'm always there · 🕐 Within the hour · 📆 Same day, usually · 🏺 Archaeologists find my replies
55. The cause that gets serious money
🧒 Kids who started like I did · 🎗️ The disease that touched my family · 🌊 Oceans, forests, the big repair · 📍 My hometown, transformed
56. Goodnight texts
🌙 Every night, non-negotiable · ✨ When the day deserves one · 😴 I fall asleep mid-conversation · 🌅 I'm the good-morning type instead
57. Staff
🧺 Full household — never fold again · 📋 One brilliant assistant · 🧹 Cleaner weekly, that's plenty · 🔒 No staff. Privacy is the luxury
58. In the group chat I am
🎤 The main character · 🫥 A committed lurker · 📋 The one who makes plans happen · 👍 Emoji reactions only
59. With infinite lesson budget I'd finally learn
✈️ To fly a plane · 🗣️ Three languages, properly · 🎹 Piano, from a master · 🔪 To cook like a chef
60. Autocorrect disasters
🙈 Weekly public humiliation · 😂 I leave them in — funnier · ✳️ Corrected with an asterisk* · 🔧 Turned it off years ago